When the Week Feels Small, Step Into Wonder and Feel How Wide You Are

Hello there, friend.

It’s Sunday morning. Maybe you’re holding something warm in both hands. Maybe the week ahead is already tapping on your shoulder with its list.

Here’s the thing. A list like that can make a whole life feel about two inches wide.

The errands. The inbox. The same street, the same sink, the same face in the mirror.

And somewhere underneath all of it, a quieter part of you is asking where the wonder went.

It’s still here. Let’s go find it together.

Wonder Begins With a Slight Shift in How You See

One Sunday I recorded a little episode from my car, under the sun, under a vast sky. I called it Sunday Ponder On Things Of Wonder.

I said something in that episode I keep coming back to.

“For it is just in our slight shift in perceptivity that we create and change our world.”

A slight shift. That’s all. Same car. Same sky. Same Sunday. And yet the whole morning opens up the moment you look at it with fresh eyes.

Wonder rarely asks for a new life. It asks for a new look at this one.

So instead of asking what’s new in my life, try asking the question I asked in that car. What’s wonderful in your world?

Apply it today. Before you check your phone, name one wonderful thing within arm’s reach.

What would this morning look like if you saw it for the very first time?

Your Capacity Is Wider Than the Story You’re Carrying

Okay, real talk.

Some weeks feel heavy. The worries stack up, the walls seem to lean in, and you start to believe you’re smaller than what’s in front of you. Maybe your chest feels tight before your feet even touch the floor. Oof, yeah. I see you.

In that same episode I said I’d been pondering one word lately. Capacity.

And in Finding Paradise in the Pause I wrote a line I needed to hear myself. “The capacity inside you runs far larger than any story your busy mind has been carrying.”

Stress loves to whisper that you’re running on empty. Wonder reminds you that you’re far roomier than you think.

To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour

William Blake, Auguries of Innocence, The Pickering Manuscript

If a grain of sand can hold a world, imagine what you can hold. A hard week and a soft heart. A full calendar and a wide open sky. You get to carry both.

Apply it today. When a worry shows up today, put a hand on your chest and say quietly, there’s room for this, and there’s room for joy too.

What would you try this week if you trusted how big you really are?

Ordinary Things Turn Holy When You Give Them Your Full Attention

Last Sunday I stood at the stove longer than I needed to, just watching the steam rise off the pot. I wrote about it in the holiest thing you’ll touch today.

Here’s what that steam taught me. “Everything gets holier the moment you give it your full attention.”

The dishes. The drive. The person across the table.

Same day, same chores, a whole different life.

Every morning was a cheerful invitation to make my life of equal simplicity, and I may say innocence, with Nature herself.

Henry David Thoreau, Walden, Where I Lived, and What I Lived For

Thoreau found his wonder at a pond. You can find yours at the kitchen sink. If you want more of this kind of morning medicine, Walt Whitman has a whole feast of it.

Apply it today. Pick one chore today and give it one full minute of attention, like it’s the most interesting thing on earth.

The Stars Come Out Every Night, and So Does Your Chance to Be Amazed

We get used to beautiful things. That’s simply how minds work. The more often something shows up, the easier it is to walk right past it.

Emerson saw this almost two hundred years ago.

If the stars should appear one night in a thousand years, how would men believe and adore; and preserve for many generations the remembrance of the city of God which had been shown!

Ralph Waldo Emerson, Nature, Chapter 1

Every single night, the stars come back. Every single morning, the light comes back. The miracle keeps showing up, faithfully, on schedule.

In Recognize your brilliance I invited us to stay “ready to be bedazzled by things as they constantly reveal themselves naturally.”

I love that word. Bedazzled. It’s a little silly and a little sacred, which is exactly how wonder feels.

Apply it today. Step outside tonight and look up for sixty seconds. Let the sky be enormous on purpose.

What beautiful thing have you grown so used to that it’s time to see it again?

You Becoming You Is Already a Miracle

Here’s one more line from Finding Paradise in the Pause that I love. “Consider how extraordinary it is that you became you.”

Out of all the possibilities, here you are. Breathing. Reading. Wondering.

Put your hand on your heart for a second. Feel that steady rhythm. You’re carrying a whole universe in there, and it keeps drumming all on its own.

In that episode I talked about tuning into “the deathless, the ageless, and the formless,” the deep part of you that was here before any worry ever showed up.

That part of you is wide awake right now. It’s the same original face I wrote about in Put On the Mask Tonight and Meet Your Original Face.

And I wrote this too. “That awareness alone is a miracle.”

So instead of asking what more do I need to become, try asking what’s already amazing about who I am today.

Apply it today. Look in the mirror for ten seconds and say, wow, look at you, you made it here.

The Sky Is Still Wide Over Your Sunday

Let’s come back to that warm mug and that week ahead with its list.

The list is still there. And so is the vast sky I sat under in my car that Sunday.

You get to hold both. The errands and the awe. The ordinary and the holy. The small tasks and the infinite you who’s doing them.

Wonder is a way of standing in your own life. Wide eyed. Open handed. Ready to be surprised by things you’ve seen a thousand times.

A slight shift. That’s all it takes. And your whole world gets bigger.

What’s wonderful in your world right now, friend?

Try This Today

1. Look up. Find the sky through any window and let your eyes rest there for three breaths.
2. Name three. Name three things you can see right now that feel quietly wonderful.
3. Make one chore holy. Give the dishes, the drive or the coffee one full minute of loving attention.
4. Say it to a friend. Text someone one thing that amazed you today and ask what amazed them.
5. Ponder your capacity. Write one sentence about something you’re ready to hold this week, then add, and there’s room for joy too.

Start today. Start early. Start with one wonderful thing you can see from where you’re sitting.

Keep Going

• You Are a Miracle This Morning, Walt Whitman on Wonder, Joy and the Open Road
• Everything Is Changing, and the Part of You Watching It Is Home
• Your Beliefs Are Painting Your World. Pick Up the Brush.
• Seven Kinds of Rest Most People Skip

This essay grew from an episode of the Start Early Today podcast, Sunday Ponder On Things Of Wonder. Give it a listen, and follow the show on Spotify for more little moments like it.

For deeper reading from Make Pure Thy Heart, sit with Finding Paradise in the Pause and the holiest thing you’ll touch today.

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With love, Paolo

Sources

• William Blake, Auguries of Innocence, The Pickering Manuscript, Wikisource
• Henry David Thoreau, Walden, Where I Lived, and What I Lived For, Wikisource
• Ralph Waldo Emerson, Nature, Chapter 1, Wikisource
• Start Early Today podcast, Sunday Ponder On Things Of Wonder, Spotify
• Paolo Peralta, Finding Paradise in the Pause, Make Pure Thy Heart
• Paolo Peralta, the holiest thing you’ll touch today, Make Pure Thy Heart
• Paolo Peralta, Recognize your brilliance, We are all made of the same stuff, Make Pure Thy Heart